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How we are different

Not just another platform.

Friends First is a 40+, faith-based relationship community where love begins with friendship and people meet in real life.

The St. Louis experiment

Not just another
platform.

LIV – The Friends First Social Experiment, St. Louis Edition, is poised to transform the way love is found for alot of us, with St. Louis being the first of many cities.

Friends First is a 40+, faith based relationship community where love begins with friendship.

We connect people through participation in the Community Keys, emotional safety, celebration of each other, amazing, cool events (called Vibe Events) and intentional connection—not superficial swipes.

This is a healthy and fun-focused space to build honest friendships that grow into lasting relationships (and yes, marriage), rooted in faith, trust and shared values.

Friends connecting during a St. Louis experience
Real life. Real community.Where friendship has room to become something more.
The difference

Designed around how
trust actually grows.

Connection develops through real experiences, thoughtful pacing, shared values, and the feeling that you genuinely belong.

01
Real life

People actually meet

Repeated in-person experiences create the familiarity and context that a profile cannot.

02
Low pressure

Friendship comes first

No initial expectation beyond enjoying the group and getting to know remarkable people.

03
Shared values

A purposeful community

Faith, growth, respect, stewardship, and encouragement shape the tone of every gathering.

04
Guided

You are welcomed in

Thoughtful hosting helps remove social anxiety and makes every member feel included.

Your next chapter

Ready for a social life that feels like you?