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Your membership starts here.

Join a guided, intentional community of high-value singles seeking meaningful friendship and long-term relationships.

Hi, Friends First candidate

A personal welcome from Bridget.

We’re building a warmer, more intentional way to meet—where friendship comes first and meaningful relationships have room to grow.

Bridget, founder of the Friends First Social Experiment, outdoors at sunset
BridgetFounder · Friends First
“The concept of putting Friendship first is statistically the very best journey to the love of your life.”
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A note from our founder

I’m so excited that you have chosen to join LIV.

I know that you will bring such value to our community!

Joining our community gives you low-pressure, exciting, guided, intentional, and curated experiences with high-value singles seeking meaningful friendships and ideal long-term relationships.

The concept of putting Friendship first is statistically the very best journey to the love of your life❣️❣️

Your membership instantly places you in amazing events and meet-ups with like-minded, quality people, removing the chaos, hurt, and toxicity of typical dating apps.

As an early Founder, you can help shape the culture, host mini events (optional), help new members navigate their adventures, be a positive contributor, and enjoy curated Vibe and Premier Events every week!

Because you are helping us launch this groundbreaking approach to love and your long-term relationship, there are several unique “Early Bird” bonuses and opportunities to engage.

I can’t wait to meet you at one of our upcoming Vibe Events and your Zoom Orientation. See you soon!

~ Bridget 🩵Founder, Friends First Social Experiment
Before you apply

Know what to expect.

Our application is thoughtful by design. Please review these three requirements before selecting your membership and beginning.

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Step 1

Confirm your commitment

Please confirm each statement:

  • I have reviewed the Community Guidelines, and Friendship, Love pages. I agree to uphold them and to champion all of our FFX Members.
  • I have reviewed these requirements and believe that I meet all of them. This includes the convicted sex offender disqualification.
  • I am single, 40+ and have an honest, sincere intention for love and a long-term, monogamous relationship. I am willing to cultivate a meaningful Friends FIRST journey, so that we have a strong foundation and the best statistical hope for a lifetime LTR.
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Step 2

Share your intention

Please provide a brief statement about why you want to be part of this community and what you hope to bring to it.

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Step 3

Consider hosting

Please indicate whether you’d also be interested in helping to host mini events. This is an optional role in the Founders Club. An easy Orientation will be provided and there is no additional cost to you.

YesNo

You’ll complete these requirements securely inside the application after choosing a membership.

Step 4 · Membership tiers

Choose your experience.

Select a membership to view the complete details and begin your three-step application.

Membership is finalized only after approval. Your welcome email will include orientation and first-event information.

You are invited

Enjoy the Gateway City like never before.

Membership is more than access—it is a guided calendar of shared experiences, thoughtful conversations, and opportunities for genuine connection.

Busch Stadium and the St. Louis skyline at night
St. Louis is your backdrop
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Vibe & Premier Events

Meet naturally. Enjoy the city.

Weekly Vibe Events are complimentary and offer an opportunity to meet and greet other members while enjoying the greatest venues in St. Louis.

Optional Premier Events are affordable and ticketed. Members are responsible for the cost of these events, and there will also be many complimentary Vibe Events.

Weekly Vibe EventsComplimentaryPremier experiences
A couple sharing a relaxed moment together
Included with both tiersSupport for the whole journey.
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Complimentary special sessions

Guidance that helps connection grow.

Both Tier 1 and Tier 2 members enjoy complimentary private monthly Special Sessions, monthly prayer times with successful married couples, and curated workshops with Bridget and other featured speakers who possess relevant expertise.

Offered via Zoom and in person

Building a great profileBest date looksCreating your personal visionFaith in the face of disappointmentLove LanguagesBiblical lovePraying for your future spouseWhat men and women really want and need
Step 5 · Personal information

A little about you.

Once you choose a membership, we’ll ask for a few essentials to help us thoughtfully review your application.

  • 01Name
  • 02Email address
  • 03Cell phone number
  • 04Area of Greater St. Louis where you live
  • 05Three interests or hobbies
  • 06Church, if you attend
Why isn’t your age requested?

All of our members are 40+. We are all grown-ups here, looking for the one incredible Friendship that leads to Love and marriage.

What more do you really need to know?

The experiment believes that people should be viewed by their essence, energy, vibrancy, attraction, chemistry and compatibility.

We know firsthand that love and marriage can be found across many age ranges. We encourage you to get to know each other without age barriers, to avoid the very swipe left superficialities that have blocked love from forming in the past. 50 is the new 30!

An inviting St. Louis gathering space overlooking the Gateway Arch
Greater St. LouisReal people. Shared interests. Genuine connection.
Your next chapter

Ready for a social life that feels like you?